Getting beyond where we feel stuck. A recommended book using the Bach Flowers to Remedy the "Co-Dependent."

Date:   2/5/2006 12:52:45 PM ( 18 y ago)

Spent about 1 1/2 hours on the phone yesterday with
Erica Watkins of Ohio. I met her at the Mark Victor Hansen
VIP luncheon last March. I was reading "Your Creation"
to the group. She was at the first table. We spent so much
time together, that I hardly worked the room with my
Business Cards.

Erica turned to the woman next to her,
head of PR for group in Florida.

They read some of The Seven Love Cures,
and agreed out loud, saying,
"You Cracked the Code!"

Being was one of the few men they had met
who understood women.

In the last week, I was wondering what I understood--
I sure need some work understanding and accepting
my own obsessive patterns that have been driving away
the Love that is natural in my life when it feels linclined
in the moment of NOW to move in this direction.

Thank God--the relationship is stable enough that
friendship prevails. This is the main thing between two
people. There will always be love between us,

As #4 of The Seven Love Cures says:

"I do not believe there is an end in sight
between us, merely differening hues of colored light,
adding up to ways to Love Me Deeper through
my courage to keep Loving You."

Erica put me in touch with the King Kong Effect
inside of me....

King Kong Effect=that squeezy feeling of can I handle
this much good right NOW???

When I am obsessing over TS
or another person, or a thing, or a desire,
or a want, I am not in touch with my personal power.

I am looking outside because I an not
spending enough time with my Inner Lover,
or finding the Consultants who can help me
get through a mess that looks like

"I can't handle this!"
"This is too BIG!"
Help!
Mother!
Life Raft!'

Who wants to be that for another person?
IT is the easiest way to drive someone you love
away.

We all have enough to do just attempting
to handle our own life without feeling like
someone is going to burden us.

Erica organizes art for major corporations....
These Corporations buy art and use it as a place
to store assets. They have major showings.
She knows all about that.

She also recommended some Women's Conferences
that have up to 80,000 or more attendees.
She feels The Seven Love Cures belong there.

She also asked be to "Tweek" my Love Cures"
workshop for presentation at some of these Conferences.

Erica purchased two of theart pieces of The Seven Love
Cures, and two sets of Seven of
"Your Creation!"
and the new "Because She is a Woman" mailer.

I felt happy.

The KING KONG EFFECT
is all about a culture that is based on
having a monster on the other side of the Wall.
There whole life revolves around that.
The monster can make us miserable,
but we are comfortable with that misery.
IT is what we know. We hardly ever give up
of a disease, etc, condition of thinking,
until it becomes super obvious the high cost.

Even then, there is so much homework
involved to evolve out of a condition,
such as feeling obsessive.

I just pulled an important book off the
shelf originally called
A Self Help Guide Integrating The Bach
Flower s to Remedy the Co-Dependent.

IT was put out in the days when that turn
was very popular....

The book is by Jessica Bear.
I met her at an early Book Sellers Conference.

It is time to move the energy of my work out
so I do not lean so heavily on the ones who are
here to support, but not take on but not take the
place of the good feelings that come when
we feel we are fulfilling our purpose and
getting beyond where we feel stuck.

Comments welcome!

1. How do you handle your obsessive tendencies?
Please share...

your eg

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Follow UP!!
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Get this order in the mail Monday, Leslie,
as promised.

I need to get this order in the mail tomorrow




 

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