12 promises...

Date:   1/7/2006 5:28:58 PM ( 18 y ago)

I find some solice in this list
of Twelve Promises I saw at
a Co Dependents (CODA) meeting this morning.
Your Eg

There are CODA Meetings all over the place.
I am feeling that some of the things I am dealing with
need improved tools

I think we all today have many of these issues.
What would you expect living in our unnatural
world and with upbringings.

Don't feel too bad. It's a gift that we have
the opportunity to work with these feelings.

love from Leslie
your eg


The Twelve Promises
of Co-Dependents Anonymous

http://www.coda.org/coda12pr.html

I can expect a miraculous change in my life by working the program of Co-Dependents Anonymous. As I make an honest effort to work the Twelve Steps and follow the Twelve Traditions...
1. I know a new sense of belonging. The feeling of emptiness and loneliness will disappear.
2. I am no longer controlled by my fears. I overcome my fears and act with courage, integrity and dignity.
3. I know a new freedom.
4. I release myself from worry, guilt, and regret about my past and present. I am aware enough not to repeat it.
5. I know a new love and acceptance of myself and others. I feel genuinely lovable, loving and loved.
6. I learn to see myself as equal to others. My new and renewed relationships are all with equal partners.
7. I am capable of developing and maintaining healthy and loving relationships. The need to control and manipulate others will disappear as I learn to trust those who are trustworthy.
8. I learn that it is possible to mend - to become more loving, intimate and supportive. I have the choice of communicating with my family in a way which is safe for me and respectful of them.
9. I acknowledge that I am a unique and precious creation.
10. I no longer need to rely solely on others to provide my sense of worth.
11. I trust a guidance I receive from my higher power and come to believe in my own capabilities.
12. I gradually experience serenity, strength, and spiritual growth in my daily life.






 

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