I think I may have misunderstood your intentions when you first started responding to these posts. I see a gentleness in your teaching style that is a credit to the road of life you have been down. I know that blood feuds, where debts are not forgiven, can continue from generation to generation. There are two paths we can go down. One is to follow the "God" of war and smite the Philistines down to every last man, woman, child, suckling baby, ass, camel, and cattle of our enemies then no forgiveness is needed. There is another path= both sides in a dispute must forgive the way God= Love forgives by forgiving all harm= casting it as far as the East is from the West and remembering it no more. I have no stomach for killing women, suckling babes, and children so I will take my chances with the God who is love. Thank you for your gentile instruction.