And it doesn't seem to slowing down anytime soon. What a shame that from high school on, American women can't wait to ratchet up the calories and the bigger thighs. I've traveled and international women around the globe typically do not have this problem. I especially see this problem in black women, where the obesity rate has to be upwards of 65%. Out...of...control hip sizes wedged into these ghastly stretch pants? Yikes! No wonder adult diabetes is at an all-time high. More than every other woman I see on the street has 35 lbs more than they need to be healthy, and to look good. And 35 lbs is being nice. I see plenty of fat guys, but fat women take the cake! Women of America: Do something about your eating and exercisizng habits before it's too late!
If you think that the women of America have not noticed the high percentage of "beer guts" in American men, then you are blind. I used to beat myself up over my extra "35" pounds, until one day when I took a hard look at my husband and realized that he has his own extra "35" pounds, he just wears it differently.
I agree there is a growing problem with weight gain in Americans; that is a well known fact. But shaming women to try and get them to lose weight isn't going to work. When a person decides to lose weight it is because something deep inside clicks and the motivation gets turned on. It's a change that takes place within, and nobody else can turn it on with shameful comments, or denying food to the woman, or any other "good intentions" of surrounding people.
Shame on you for trying to shame us women who live everyday already shaming ourselves because of our weight. And I suggest you take a hard look around you. Men have the same weight gain problem as us women, they just carry it a bit less obviously.
I'm not the one carrying extra pounds. True, guys carry it in their guts, but I don't see you women complaining too much about it. Is that my fault? Guys complain about you women being fat and losing your attractive qualities, that's what they're saying out in the open. You can run and hide from reality, but honesty is what Mtnn is all about. I don't hear a lot of *%#&¤?§* 'in about Henry's waistline, a smidgeon but not a lot mind you, but I do hear plenty about Henrietta's thighs. Why is that? Ball's in your court now...why don't you women voice your dissatisfaction with those beer guts instead of justifying why you let your rear ends continue to widen yearly?
The women friends I have do complain about men's weights, but they do it with compassion and understanding and most of all, concern for their well-being.
you make me sick, sometimes people truly cant loose weight, because of a medical problem, that mabey the doc has yet to find.
whats your excuse, i think over weight women are sensitive and caring, and probably more intelligent, so go screw your skinny women then afterwords you can have a intelligent conversation (not) or mabey thats what you like Ive heard of guys like you controll freaks. Im not saying all thin women are stupid just the ones that would date/marry you.
You carry a few babies for 9 months and see how easily you can loss the weight. Ya, men love being daddy's but you forget you had a part in the "weight" problem also.
First of all let me say that your ignorance is amazing. Yes obesity has rising among all races and yes mostly among the African American women. Did you ever stop to realize that not only has obesity risen but so has the number of poor and the numer of single family homes. This leading to the fact that you now have a single parent house(mostly women and mostly African American)trying to support and raise a family by herself. Which you obviously being so ignorant don't have any conscept as to what that entails. It is proven that to raise 1 child is equivalent to two fulltime jobs. So including working for a living and raising just 1 child you know are working the same as if you are working 3 fulltime jobs in one day. Imagine if you had more then one child. Now I also have many white friends who are supposedly happily married , who have "normal " husbands, NONE OF WHICH PULL THEIR OWN SHARE OF THE CHILD REARING EITHER LET ALONE TAKE THE TRASH OUT".
So I ask you Oh Glorious self-rightess one when are these women suppose to exercise. It is certaintly not for a lack of desire but maybe it is for a lack of time, lack of energy having to pick up the mens slack and continual bitterness for having men constantly let them down when it comes to them "having to have children to show off to their buddies but yet never waking up in the middle of the night, never taking them to a birthday party or anything else it takes to be a parent."
Now I don't know you but by your ignorance you seem the exact type of man that would knock up some woman, maybe pay child support(like that makes a difference anymore), but not do anything else. And then when your wife or ex gets fat becuase she has been forced to pick up your slack that you now get joy out of making fun of her and putting her down. At this point you would crush what self esteem she has left pushing her into the only comfort she has gotten that doesn't critise her like you do (FOOD). Then you run off with a younger more naive , skinny girl until you do the same thing to her. Until one day you look in the mirror and the "skinny" girls don't want you anymore becuase you yourself have grown a beer gut and ingrown hairs in places that we don't want to mention and the fat girls have had enough time alone are now too smart to get involved with you and simply don't need you anymore. So you see oh so self-rightous one if you men would stop complaining about women getting fat and letting ourself go , and actual help raise the children that you helped bring in to the world then us women would have more time to go to the gym so then we could look hot only no longer with you. However don't think that we have not caught on to your plan, by being a slack parent and pushing the burden onto the women, leaving us no time to think straight or exercise, getting us fat...... all comes down to the plan that you think by then no GOOD man would want us. Becuase we all know how men don't want another man on or should I say in his territory. Which you still think we are even after we throw yourself out the window, file a restraining order and tell you in 20 different languages to FUCK OFF.
It's people like you that give negative critisism and no real answers that make me sick! Do you really think Black woman hold the market on stretch pants and obesity. You bring new meaning to the word Masoginist! What country are you from and I think they are very lucky you left and how very lucky we are to have gotten such an expert on fat rear ends and thighs as you. America the beautiful! Love it or leave it. If you don't have something to say that helps someone then you are part of the problem! So go back to where you came from and please shut your ignorant pie hole. Did someone say PIE! I love PIE! I'm not black, nor do I wear stretch pants, But that was pretty typical. Boreing is the kiss of death in this world and you may be just that! I'm sure everyone beautiful is dying to be with you! Hey! BOZO, look at these thighs!
Just because I point out problems that never go away, don't blame me...I'm not the fattie here. I'm as American as Toby Keith, but just like keep'in it real. That's what we're all about here at Curezone...honesty. American women have let themselves go to a point that I'm going to shame them into weight loss...WE ALL KNOW THAT NOTHING ELSE TRIED HAS WORKED!!!! You go on being defensive, and have that extra slab of pie. I'll go on trying to get the nation's women into an exersize program and portioned meal plan. Guilt and shame have changed MANY a bad behavior. Adultery, gambling, drinking, credit card charging, abusing women, neglect, pride, lack of education...all have been changed by guilt and shame. Try it sometime.
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The very thing you list as an undesirable is the thing you are doing: Abusing women.
It is abusive to attempt to shame women into losing weight by making derogatory remarks about their body parts.
By the way, no one has asked you to take on the cause of shaming us overweight women into losing weight. I can guarantee that your tactics will never work, not even with any woman close to your life.
Why don't you just worry about your own body and leave the rest of us alone to deal with our own bodies? You don't have to have roaming eyes and look at the overweight women of the world. And if you do happen to notice one, why not have some compassion for her? Or have you never been overweight and thus have no idea of the daily struggle we endure?
I’m afraid it doesn’t always work like that mtwn. Sometimes people do need a kick up the backside but guilt wont work
I’m not American and i do’t want to offend anyone, but it seems that all the media images which potray the perfect women positively and portray normal looking or overweight and ''unattractive'' negivitly are too blame. They send out negative images making women feel guilty. Plus when I went to America there were mc Donald’s everywhere! I think just maybe all the fast food restraunts could have something to do with it. And the portions are huge!
Thin is nice, but not all people mind a bit of flab, I don’t have a weight problem but I could point out a few very attractive big girls. And men getting big we do voice our opinions but less men will actually take pride in their appearance that way or rely on image for confidence.
And the list of things you gave , they are caused by selfishness and when ppl take their heads out of their bum!
You just didn't get it did you? Did you sit and read these letter's? I know that anyone who is ignorant enough to say that stupid statement about fat black woman will not have any effect on any one except sympathy for your lack of personal growth and retardation. First off I think America has come along way to unite the people of all colors and fat has no color. Get over the pie! Have some as a matter of fact and stop spreading the racist profiling!
mntn drool has been doing this for as long as I have been at curezone! he is nothing more than troll who never insults any one personaly except me and I could care less! But he gets away with all kinds of racial slurs and gets great pleasure telling women what pigs they are ! He has never posted anything helpful in any medical forum and doesnt really believe in any of it! Why is he here? My quess is for the response he gets from from these remarks! Another words just to "act out" like some delinquent juvenile! Why is he tolerated! Is the real question? Grog
Mmmm...look at this trashy person talking all this BS in here.
"Just because I point out problems that never go away, don't blame me...I'm not the fattie here."
WELL LETS SEE...FIRST OF ALL WE ARE ON A COMPUTER AND WE CANNOT SEE WHAT YOU REALLY LOOK LIKE! SO YOU PROB LOOK LIKE EVERYONE THAT YOU ARE MAKING FUN OF. ALSO I HAVE NOT HEARD YOU SPEAK OF A WIFE/GIRLFRIEND...SO OBIVIOUSLY YOU DO NOT HAVE ONE OR ELSE YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN BRAGGING ABOUT HOW "GREAT" SHE IS. PEOPLE THAT ARE VERY INSECURE ABOUT THEMSELVES TRY TO PUT OTHERS DOWN B/C IT MAKES THEM FEEL BETTER...SO WE ALL KNOW WHAT KIND OF PERSON YOU ARE. OH AND DID YOU SAY SOMETHING ABOUT NOT BEING FROM AMERICA?? HMM...FIGURES, YOU NEED TO GO BACK WHERE U CAME FROM B/C YOU DON'T BELONG HERE! SORRY IF I AM BEING SO HARSH BUT I AM TAKING UP FOR THOSE WHO LET UR SORRY AZZ DISS THEM. I BET YOU WOULDN'T TELL YA MAMMY WHAT YOU TELL THESE PEOPLE ON HERE! SO DON'T HATE, CONGRATULATE AND APPRECIATE!!!!!!!!
Thumbs up! Who Ahhh! I think that most of us have come to far together to tolerate this kind of ignorance. You could take this person on over and over again but he will never be a match for your wit or intelligence. Sadly he won't even know it!
While you're busy trying to get the last word in, why don't you use that public school education and spell "to" as "too", meaning "also". Spellcheck is useful, "too".
Obviously. Take a good, long look at the professor's list of advice accomplishments. I took a look at yours, and it ain't all that, milk drinka. Instead of downing the mother's milk, you need a good dose of MTNNDEWW to wake up those dull senses. Put your hand down, I'll call on you later. Read your assignment and come back with some respect like all the rest. Geez...freshmen!
lmao!!! i knew trash like yourself would have an ignorant comeback. but thats okay...i ACTUALLY feel sorry for you! so why aren't you going to diss me like you do everyone else??? is it b/c i put you in your place and YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING TO SAY??? HAHA I KNEW THAT WAS THE REASON! maybe you should get some confidence and actually feel GOOD about youself. stop trying to make others look stupid...yea yea yea and like your prob gonna say..."oh all these people are stupid." well we've known that you've been stupid all along from the first time you opened your mouth, and also every time you open your mouth you say something stupid! so do me and everyone else a favor and (as in The Cat's words) SHUT YO MAMMY F*** MOUTH AND DRANK SOME MILK!
OH YEA...HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR THA CAT! OBIVIOUSLY YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT A MILK DRANKA IS!!!!!!!!! SO WHEN YOU FIND OUT...GO TELL YA MAMMY!!
DUH!! Guilt and shame as a weight loss plan, well lets think about this for a minute. Minute is up, HELLO!!! Did it occur to you that Guilt and Shame are one of the two worst negative emotions and the very same reason why some woman are overweight?
Hey, slim did ya think of that? Of course not. Are you married? I bet your not! You have the sensitivity of a wet mop and the personality of a rattlesnake.
Your focus on "hip size" in women is inappropriate when specifically discussing the increase in Diabetes. Having Big Hips is more "biologically correct" for a woman than is having a big torso and abdomen. You sound like a real hater....and a somewhat uninformed one, at that. A woman with a big butt and small waist and breasts is at less risk for the diseases associated with obesity than is a woman with smaller hips and a big stomach and breasts. But, you are a misogynist who thinks(I should say feels, because there is not much thinking going on)that women should be healthy so that will they provide viewing pleasure for men....You feel some sort of entitlement to feminine beauty..when you are entitled to nothing except yourself. I am probably wasting my time..because I think you will not even understand....
I was on this site months ago...and you were doing the same thing you are now.Your psychic and spiritual excrement reeks...... Don't you have anything else to spread...
To late for what? To impress men like you? I don't think so.
American women take the cake ha? How about overweight men, when you bend over your crack hangs out of your pants. Ya, that's a pretty sight. If you don't have anything intellegent to say or advice to offer why say anything???
None of us said " Hey! I think I'll get fat!" You don't know why people have weight problems, anymore then I know why some people have attitude problems.
Please get a new hobby, passing judgement on others isn't working for you.
To late for what? To impress men like you? I don't think so.
American women take the cake ha? How about overweight men, when you bend over your crack hangs out of your pants. Ya, that's a pretty sight. If you don't have anything intellegent to say or advice to offer why say anything???
None of us said " Hey! I think I'll get fat!" You don't know why people have weight problems, anymore then I know why some people have attitude problems.
Please get a new hobby, passing judgement on others isn't working for you.
To late for what? To impress men like you? I don't think so.
American women take the cake ha? How about overweight men, when you bend over your crack hangs out of your pants. Ya, that's a pretty sight. If you don't have anything intellegent to say or advice to offer why say anything???
None of us said " Hey! I think I'll get fat!" You don't know why people have weight problems, anymore then I know why some people have attitude problems.
Please get a new hobby, passing judgement on others isn't working for you.
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