So you’ve been married for decades and you were Sure it was forever. You’ve raised a family together, you’ve seen each other through rough times and good times. You settle in , calmly anticipating growing old with this man. And then, suddenly: he changes. In a lot of ways. Some subtle; some not so subtle. You watch him and you feel something you’ve never felt in your life: anxiety. At first you tell yourself, oh, it’s just a stage he’s going through. We’re fine. He loves me; he loves us! You humor his little activities: the weight lifting, the weightloss, the after shave lotion, the beg ...   read more