Date:   5/15/2006 9:45:59 AM ( 18 y ago)
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URL:   http://www.curezone.org/blogs/c/fm.asp?i=995649

hi
i feel like i should give u some advice, maybe im wrong, but i got really hectic and stressed before my wedding 4yrs ago, and i got mad and resentful toward my man becuz i felt like he wasnt participating enuff. after all, he was the one who really wanted the wedding. nyways, i just wanna say , dont think that getting married will resolve the problem, or that after u get married things will be much better that this is just a stressful time for u. if u get this mad now before ur married chances r u r going to get this mad after ur married, and maybe worse.
my suggestion, wait on marriage, get to know each other more. there might be some unresolved issues in ur life or his life or both. try to work it out before u get married....not after. i wish i had. i got married in a hurry becuz i was afraid we were going to do something physical that i would regret. and those little unresolved issues just got worse and then the resentment comes in and now we r seperated.
think about it
 

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