Boy I'm sorry you feel that way. I am a Roman Catholic. The old school nuns and priests had issues as I've heard this complaint a lot of times from many people. I hear it a lot when I talk about how much I love praying the rosary. Maybe it's because I'm more of an individual and the church I go to has younger priests who actually WANTED to be priests. I think a lot of older generation priests and nuns didn't want to be priests. Many became priests to overcome homosexual desires, please family members,etc. Many women had no choice and thus had a lot of pent up anger and frustration.